There is a huge difference between wanting to be alone and being lonely. Being alone is a choice, but loneliness is a result of helplessness. A lonely person might not be alone physically, but mentally there seems to be no one in sight.
Loneliness is caused by a lack of self-esteem and the inability to connect on a deeper level with other people and is the worst kind of poverty. It is a feeling that you are not sufficient for anyone in this world and that you are replaceable.
Loneliness is a potent elixir in opening the gates of your mind. When a person is lonely, he can let his imagination run wild and seek consolation and love he desire from people who reside in his minds and heart. He tries to make everyone feel happy and loved because it is only he who knows what it feels to not be loved and wanted.
Loneliness has the power to make a person believe he is sufficient for himself. But, when a wave of despair and loss hits you it gets hard to wipe your tears and comfort the aching heart. As you glance out the window, the tears tremble down your cheeks, blurring your vision, and the instant you realize no one is coming to hold you tight, the sorrow you were feeling seems to fade away, leaving just an empty heart and dried out eyes.
Loneliness is a lovely yet uncomfortable piece of clothing. This thing fits you like a glove as if it was made just for you. It adheres to your skin and conceals all your flaws, pain, and insecurities beneath its glitzy appearance. A lonely person will change himself completely to fit in but won’t show his vulnerability to anyone because he is afraid of alienating the only person who cares about him.
Loneliness is wondering that if the world was coming to an end would anyone come to see me for the last time or hold my hand and save me and the feeling of being cut off from your loved ones but not being able to do anything about it. It is having to talk about a bunch of things at the end of the day but nobody to listen it.
Loneliness is liberating and addictive. It is the freedom to listen to your heart and follow it without hundreds of eyes watching you. Once you are accustomed to the silence surrounding you, the tranquility and serenity in the atmosphere become a haven. This transforms a person into their best friend whom they can count on for their whole lives.
The sense of not belonging is a sign that you are supposed to be somewhere else. Allow the loneliness to motivate you to go to your objective, and perhaps this will vanish while you’re driving one of your two-seater sports cars. Even though the world appears to be crumbling today and everyone appears to be having a good time despite your absence, remember that you must modify the circumstances so that a party never begins without you stepping foot there.
If you don’t have a shoulder to lean against, grab a pillow and curl up. Positive affirmations can help you stay motivated and become stronger with each passing day. This will be the most difficult phase to complete, but the journey will be worthwhile once you see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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