By Dr. Seema Sarkar
What is marriage? Especially in India… Adjustment with a stranger lifelong! It’s really a very difficult job to please a man and win his heart, becoming one soul in two bodies! A brilliant, intelligent man can be so conservative that he behaves with his wife sweetly before the society and otherwise like a baby doll. He can’t understand that playing with her can bring boredom to her life! She is his better half and wants to share everything with him without keeping any secrets between them, but the man prefers not to and keeps her in the dark. A clever, shrewd wolf in sheep’s clothing!
On the other hand, the mother-sister of husband to wife are tagged to be vampires. What an irony! If they behave nicely, it’s considered their trick to get work done. The sentences spoken normally are given other meanings to prove them villainous. If they talk and show love to their son/brother, they are supposed to be home breakers, separating the wife from her husband.
It’s a really tough situation for a man to please his wife, mother and sister at one time. He tries hard to make a bridge between them and manage every front peacefully and if luck favours, he can handle situations peacefully and be a happy person. If things go beyond his control, then the stress, torture and trauma can destroy his mental peace.
By Dr. Seema Sarkar
Tells the story about arranged marriage without sugarcoating . Ma'am is definitely a really good writer and I'm fortunate to have been under her guidance